Saturday, July 07, 2007

I've learned-that

I've learned-that
you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is be someone who can be loved.
The rest is up to them.


I've learned-that
no matter how much I care,
some people just don't care back.


I've learned-that
it takes years to build up trust,
and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned-that
it's not what you have in your life
but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learned-that
you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes.
After that, you'd better know something.

I've learned-that
you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do.

I've learned-that
you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.

I've learned-that
it's taking me a long time
to become the person I want to be.

I've learned-that
you should always leave loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned-that
you can keep going
long after you can't.

I've learned-that
we are responsible for what we do,
no matter how we feel.

I've learned-that
either you control your attitude
or it controls you.

I've learned-that
regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first,
the passion fades
and there had better be something else to take its place.

I've learned-that
heroes are the people
who do what has to be done
when it needs to be done,
regardless of the consequences.

I've learned-that
money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned-that
my best friend and I can do anything
or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned-that
sometimes the people you expect
to kick you when you're down
will be the ones to help you
get back up.

I've learned-that
sometimes when I'm angry
I have the right to be angry,
but that doesn't give me
the right to be cruel.

I've learned-that
just because someone doesn't love you
the way you want them to
doesn't mean they don't love you
with all they have.

I've learned-that
maturity has more to do
with what types of experiences you've had
and what you've learned from them
and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I've learned-that
you should never tell a child
their dreams are unlikely or outlandish.
Few things are more humiliating,
and what a tragedy it would be
if they believed it.

I've learned-that
no matter how good a friend is,
they're going to hurt you every once in a while
and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned-that
no matter how bad your heart is broken
the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned-that
our background and circumstances
may have influenced who we are,
but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned-that
even when you think you have no more to give,
when a friend cries out to you,
you will find the strength to help.

3 comments:

  1. did you write this yourself, or where did you get this from? it's good, but sounds like i heard this before.

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